The Kiss: Hope in the ICU
By Marcy Phipps, RN, a regular contributor to this blog. Her essay, “The Love Song of Frank,” was published in the May issue of AJN.
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I always look forward to interdisciplinary rounds. I’ve worked with most of the team members for years and enjoy the differing perspectives and collaboration. Today is no exception; I know my patient very well, as he’s been in the ICU for months. As the interdisciplinary team moves through the ICU like a small mingling mob, pausing at each room for a brief nursing report and lingering for discussion, I stand in anticipation, ready to present my patient’s case.
My report, though, is politely cut short by the medical director.
“What’s changed?” he wants to know.
And I feel pressed to produce some crumb of improvement.
“Well…” I say. “He kisses his wife. His GCS* remains eight, but he kisses his wife.”
A few people smile, and I hear a few chuckles.
“It’s a reflex!” I hear someone say as they move away.
I know, of course, how little the kisses mean from a medical standpoint. His initial injury was neurologic, and his neuro status is quite compromised, but stable. His cardiovascular, gastrointestinal, and genitourinary systems are stable, as well. It’s respiratory insufficiency that keeps him in the unit. Puckering his lips in response to his wife leaning towards him is not significant […]
