By Maureen “Shawn” Kennedy, interim editor-in-chief
On this past Monday at “Did Facebook Kill the Christmas Card?” She went on to detail all the ways people can connect online nowadays, making a case that the traditional “here’s what I’ve been doing all year” card is going the way of the little black address book and pocket calendar., writer Kate Julian, lamenting that her mailbox was devoid of cards this season, asked,
I’m not so sure we can put all the blame on Facebook. In my own case, I was (and still am) unprepared. I just know Christmas came earlier this year—I don’t know how they did it, but somehow the calendar seemed to do one of those Star Wars hyperspeed jump things, where lights whiz by and you’ve jumped light years ahead. I remember Halloween, and then there was Thanksgiving . . . but wasn’t that just last week?
Or maybe it only seems that way because with technology we can now work more efficiently and be more productive in less time. But where IS all this time I’m saving with technology?
This time of year makes me think of childhood Christmases, but not so much my own. My mother grew up in a small New England town during the 1930s; it was always cold and snowy. It was a mill town and no one had money to spare, so gifts were homemade and simple—jams, breads, cakes, knitted and crocheted items, and maybe a lap cover. It was less about gifts and more about the gesture of giving something that was useful and meaningful; there was lots of visiting and “dropping in” and spending some time catching up.
Now we can e-mail and text and post updates, and we probably know more about friends and strangers today than we did before—but I wonder, is it the stuff worth knowing? Do I really care about what Mary’s doing on Saturday, or what kind of car Jim bought? What about how they’re doing since their parents died? When was the last time we had a real conversation?
I think most of the time I’ve saved is now spent online. I think I just found my New Year’s resolution.
I have to confess, I sent e-cards this year. They were homemade, though . . .