Seen and Understood: A Postpartum Scare and a Nurse’s Firm Reassurance
After an anxious pregnancy, short-lived relief.
When I got pregnant several months after an unexpected second trimester miscarriage, I was both elated and terrified. The loss taught me that aside from keeping myself healthy and getting prenatal care, I had no real control. I lived every day as if the pregnancy might not work out.
In the end, I gave birth to a healthy baby girl. It was such a relief to finally hold her, to know that I wouldn’t again be blindsided. But this relief was short-lived. I was nursing my daughter at home a week after the birth when I noticed that my pants felt wet. Looking down, I saw blood soaking through my clothes.
I tried to remain calm as I handed the baby to my husband and called the after-hours service at my OB-GYN. I was told to come to the ED right away. Panic-stricken, I realized that I had to take my 7-day-old baby with me. I was nursing, it was nighttime, and I had no formula in the house.
I called 911 and an ambulance came to take me to the hospital. My husband would meet me there with the baby once my mother arrived to watch our sleeping toddler. As the EMTs prepared to move me, I gave my […]



