Does Everything Happen for a Reason? One Oncology Nurse’s Perspective
Does Nature Argue Fate? The Acorn Contains The Tree/
charcoal, pastel, and ink on paper/ Julianna Paradisi 2019
The human need to find meaning.
“Everything happens for a reason” is a saying I hear a lot in my nursing practice, from patients and coworkers alike.
The need to find meaning in the events of our lives, good or bad, appears to be a distinctively human trait. Ancient Greeks believed Clotho, one of the Three Fates, spun the lives of humans. In medieval times, Anglo-Saxons may have believed in wyrd, a concept similar to fate in our modern language. Elsewhere, the idea of karma teaches a cause and effect perspective on this life, and on future lives. These are only a few examples.
Learning to ask ‘why’ as a pediatric ICU nurse.
I began questioning if everything happens for a reason as a pediatric intensive care nurse at the beginning of my career. Asking “why?” is a natural response to watching a child suffer. Why is a baby born without a functional left ventricle? Why does an infant contract leukemia or a brain tumor?
Certainly genetics or environmental factors cause some cases. Regardless, it’s difficult […]