Permission to Grieve: A Poet Addresses the Unmapped Territory of Pregnancy Loss

You were so new, still more dream than person.

A poetry submission hits a personal chord.

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As the column coordinator for AJN’s Art of Nursing, which publishes poetry, flash fiction, and visual art related to health and health care, many poems cross my desk. I always appreciate the creativity and emotion in these poems, even when they aren’t quite a fit for our journal. And then there are the ones that not only fit, but that strike a personal chord and stay with me.

Carrying,” by Katie Manning, PhD, MA, is one such poem. (Click on the PDF for the best version.) It immediately touched me because of the powerful way it described a sensitive topic: pregnancy loss. As a mother who lost a pregnancy in my second trimester, I found myself nodding with tears in my eyes at her elegant descriptions of grief and loss.

The poem received universal praise from our peer reviewers, and when I wrote to Manning to tell her we’d accepted it, I added a personal note about my own experience (something I had never done as an editor). We exchanged words of comfort and spoke about how the topic is not nearly discussed […]

A Roundup of Women’s Health Issues

Is it Women’s Health Month? Not according to the calendar. But as you browse through this month’s issue of AJN, you may indeed get the impression that we decided to focus on women’s health for the month of August.

This month’s Viewpoint, by Julie Michelle Haracz, “Making OTC Oral Contraceptives Available for All Women,” reminds us that “No woman should have to wait months for an appointment to see a physician, travel long distances, or pay more than she can afford to prevent an unintended pregnancy.” Haracz notes that oral contraceptives already are available over the counter in more than 100 other countries.

In the news: quick takes and closer looks.

Our August news section is filled with stories of particular importance to women. Our reporters cover the flurry of recent state laws that would significantly limit a women’s ability to obtain an abortion (all facing court challenges), an interesting UK study showing that a single dose of antibiotic after forceps-assisted or vacuum-assisted births reduced the incidence of infection, and sobering new CDC statistics suggesting that 60% of U.S. pregnancy-related deaths are preventable.

Did you know that suicide is the second-leading cause of death among young people in the U.S.? Sadly, the rate of suicide among girls ages 10 to 14 is rising, narrowing the gap between rates rates for boys and girls.

Some positives.

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