Caring with Intention: Palliative Care and the Human Family
Vivian Dee, APRN-BC, RN, lives in Texas. She works on a bone marrow transplant unit and is and a doctoral student in the DNP program at Walden University.
In 2008, our organization created a new palliative care wing. No one was certified yet or knew much about caring for palliative care patients. The leadership scrambled to put together learning instructions in the form of PowerPoints and seminars.
In the midst of this flux, our unit admitted a homeless man as one of our first patients. Larry was an alcoholic who’d been out on the streets for many years. His health had deteriorated, and he’d developed liver cirrhosis. Since he couldn’t afford medical care, he’d opted for palliative care.
Larry was unpretentious and polite, and he soon became one of my favorite patients. I met him at the initial team meeting, where we established goals of care. As the days passed, I got to know Larry and his wishes, dreams, and desires. He would talk about his family, his cousins, and his mother. How he longed to see them one more time. To ask forgiveness and to say goodbye.
Days soon turned into weeks, weeks into months. Larry became weaker. Soon it was apparent that it would only be days before Larry took his last breath. […]