Throwing a Rope Down The Hole of Despair: Early Referral to Palliative Care
Julianna Paradisi, RN, OCN, is an oncology nurse navigator and writes a monthly post for this blog. Illustration by the author: River, Mountain, Sky – detail of Polar Bear’s Last Song. Watercolor, inkjet collage, 2016.
Nervously, I adjust the Bluetooth earpiece I’m wearing before dialing the phone number. I’ve rehearsed my greeting. On the other end, the patient answers, “Hello?”
I tell her it’s her nurse navigator and I’ve called to find out how she’s doing. Her oncologist recently informed her the cancer has returned—further treatment will only ease symptoms, not cure the cancer.
“I haven’t left the house since I got the news,” she tells me. “Sometimes I just sit on the sofa all day. I don’t know what to do.”
It’s a common response from patients in similar circumstances. The realization they will not survive can become emotionally paralyzing, rendering a person unable to find purpose or a reason to keep going. Pain, fatigue from surgery, chemotherapy, and radiation therapy, contribute to feelings of hopelessness, hampering the ability to consider their choices.
“Did your doctor mention a palliative care referral?”
Many health care providers […]



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